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Buying gifts for your significant other can be as torment as it is pleasure, especially if you together for a long time and you feel like you have already bought all there is. Perfume? Checked. Button down shirt? Checked. A dinner at a fancy restaurant? Checked… And you could probably go on like this for hours. Do not worry, the world is filled with gifts not yet bought and acts of love not yet performed. You just need some drive to get your imagination going.

Here, we will try to be that drive, by giving you a list of some possibly cool ideas for presenting to your loved one.

A Free Pass to Your Life…

If you are not yet living with your partner, than you could give him/her some sort of free pass for your life. You can start with buying one more toothbrush for your bathroom or leaving some room in your wardrobe for his/her stuff. If you really want to step up the game, the keys of your apartment would not be such a bad idea.

A Skill for a Lifetime

Nowadays, there is a course for everything. Find some area where your partner always wanted to participate (cooking, photography, etc.) and enroll him/her on the course. Or be slightly selfish and choose a massage course. No one will benefit of it as you will. Also, you can take a short massage course and give your significant other a massage he/she could only dream about.

Something to Remember

You know all the jokes about Facebook’s profile photo and tagged photo? Well, unless you are incredibly photogenic and have a great camera, your photos with your partner are probably mostly tagged photos. So, take a day to create amazing memories, by hiring a photographer, going to some place that is special for you, choosing a nice outfit and striking a pose. Do not be too stiff, though; the greatest love pictures are the one photographed spontaneously.

For the Love of Romance…

Yes, romantic dinners might be so yesterday’s idea, but if you play your cards right, you may wow your partner. First advice would be to cook yourself, and to decorate your dining room, terrace or backyard. You can also search for a chic and romantic restaurant you never went to. And, why not, even take a daytrip to some other city to discover its wonders.

A Day of Pampering

Full spa treatment – do not mind if we do. Nothing beats a day of over-the-top pampering – from a relaxing massage (if it is a chocolate one even better), to pedicure and eventually a sauna; you will feel like you have got your own day in paradise.

Make Your Own Movie Theater…

Did you know that during the ‘70s, there were hundreds of adult movie theaters spread across U.S.? Since now it is difficult to find one, recreate something similar in your room. If you lack of inspiration, remember the Scorsese’s Taxi Driver and the famous scene from the theater. Just do not run away as De Niro’s date. After you are done with creating the atmosphere, rent an adult movie and watch it with your partner.

Three Is (Not) a Crowd

If both you and your partner have no problems with experimenting and if you have ever talked about a threesome and never seemed to make it happen, there is no better time than now. Just make sure that you choose the person with who you will share your intimacy very well, and that both you and your partner agree on the choice. Note that a threesome should not be a surprise, because both of you need to be a part of the planning process.

These were just some ideas to get you started, of course, you should choose your gifts based on your significant other’s unique personality and preferences. Good luck.

Spicing things up from time to time can help you improve your sexual life. It can spark the fire between you and your long-term partner and breathe in some fresh air into your mutual relationship. One of the most challenging, but also most exciting tactics that a bisexual couple can introduce to their sexual relationship is trying a threesome. However, it is not easy to start such a sexual journey, which is why we have come up with some useful tips.

Mutual Consent

Experimenting in sex requires a certain degree of maturity. When it comes to sexual intercourses that include more people, couples have to be completely open-minded towards such an option. Both partners have to want such a thing. If a bisexual partner really wants to do it and the other one agrees to it only not to hurt the other side, the outcome could be terrible. So, the first precondition for a threesome is that both sides really want it or that they have already tried it.

Online Sexual Realm

Sex is the most dominant content feature in the online world. Apart from those rudimentary websites that meet their visitors' basic biological needs, it is also possible to find a third side for more delicate and profound sexual fantasies, like threesomes. There are several reasons that make bisexual dating sites a great option for finding the right person for such a purpose. Firstly, you will not feel ashamed of your wishes. Secondly, it is much easier to find a perfect partner for your threesome preferences on the web. For instance, when a heterosexual couple decides to try a threesome, there will have to be some bisexual interaction, as well. This matter is easier to be handled online. Finally, you can read comments about different partners, which will help you choose the right one.

From Your Social Circle

Now we're stepping onto a shaky ground. Suggesting your partner to do a threesome with a person you both know is a double-edged razor. On one hand, it could give all of you a whole new perspective and skyrocket your sexual excitement. However, it could also lead to a disappointment and you could lose both the partner and the friend. The rule of thumb for a threesome that includes three people who know one another is that none of them should be in a steady relationship. It seems that such a combination is viable for younger people who hang out and want to try some unrestrained sex. On the other side, married couples and partners who have been together for a long time should definitely avoid suggesting threesomes to their friends, but opt for unknown partners. Here you can read a Cosmopolitan article about a threesome experience between two female friends and a random guy.

Professional Agencies

If you need to have your car fixed, you go to a car mechanic. When your teeth hurt, you visit a dentist. So, the most natural thing to do when you want to find a sexual partner is to turn to sex professionals. The great option about finding a professional in the field of sexual services is that you can be sure that they will not talk to anyone about your mutual interaction. What is more, reliable escort professionals, like Red Door agency, keep their employees under strict control when it comes to health and privacy matters. By hiring a professional for your threesome, you will get a first-class service and a guarantee that you will have no health side effects.

Although having a threesome sounds inspiring and provocative, it really requires serious and deep analysis. If you realize that both of you want to try it, find a trustworthy partner or have a professional service do it for you and enjoy your sexual freedom.

In the most recent gubernatorial elections, Oregon voters made history when they elected the nation's first openly bisexual governor. Kate Brown, who was sworn into office in February, took the place of Governor John Kitzhaber who resigned over corruption allegations involving his fiancé. Not only is Brown the first openly bisexual governor, but also she is the second LGBT person to hold the gubernatorial office. The first was New Jersey's former governor Jim McGreevey, who came out as gay prior to resigning due to a scandal in 2004.

Chicago may be known for Wrigley's Field and The Windy City, but Chicago also has one of the best bisexual-friendly neighborhoods in the world! According to Out Traveler, the Boystown neighborhood in Chicago, was voted and awarded as the best LGBT friendly neighborhood in the world! This neighborhood beat out other top contenders like The Mission section in San Francisco and some from around the world. But what makes Boystown so great? It was the first in the country to officially have a designated 'gayborhood' that has everything you could want – bars, restaurants, walkability, art, entertainment and more.

Check out this list of places to go and things to do that will have you planning your next trip to Chicago!

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