How to Find a Bisexual Third for a Threesome

Having a threesome is an exciting fantasy come true for many couples that are looking to add a new level of excitement and intimacy to their love life. As long as everyone is on the same page regarding what a threesome means, and what it does not mean for the relationship, everyone can enjoy a new level of erotic and healthy fun. The most challenging aspect of having a threesome is bringing it up to your partner and figuring out how to make it happen. Fortunately, after realizing there is equal excitement, finding a third for your threesome will not be difficult at all with the right approach.

Although it’s possible to meet your threesome third at a bar, club or by inviting a friend into the mix, the best way is to find him or her on a bisexual dating site.  By using a bisexual dating site, you are more likely to find a third for a threesome that is sexually comfortable with both men and women.  On a dating site, everyone is out seeking the same thing, rather than making decisions after drinking at a party or bar that you may later regret.  We recommended going online to find someone outside of you or your partner’s circle of friends. This will avoid any awkwardness, hurt feelings or drama after the threesome has happened. By going online everyone knows what they want and you will find a third that is actively seeking a couple to fulfill their own fantasy. It’s the safest and most seamless approach.

The Best Way to Set Up a Threesome Online

1. Join a Bisexual Dating Site

We recommended that you set up a dating profile as a couple seeking a third for a threesome on a bisexual dating site.  A bisexual dating network will have people that are definitely interested in both Guys and Girls, which is key to making your threesome happen.  Creating a profile as a couple will let any potential third see how attractive you are. This also avoids having to introduce your third to your other half on a date. If you are going to have a threesome together, go through the entire process as a couple on a bisexual dating site.  Make it something you do together and this will result in a more fun and fulfilling experience for everyone involved.

2. Post A Variety of Pictures

If you and your partner are searching for a third online be sure to post a variety of pictures. Some ideas can include:

• Solo pictures, especially shots that show off your bodies.
• Pictures that highlight any kinks or preferences you would explore with a third such as BDSM or role play scenarios.
• Include pictures as a couple to show how you look and interact together so that potential thirds can get a sense of your chemistry.

When it comes to posting pictures more is better. It shows that you are serious about finding a third and it helps that person to decide even before meeting if they are going to want to have a threesome with you and your partner. Let your pictures do the talking for you!

3. Send Messages

The last step to finding a third for a threesome is to browse profiles with your partner to see who turns you both on. If you both like someone and their profile explicitly states, or subtly suggests they would be open to it, send a message! Picking up a third with your partner is incredibly sexy. Message your potential third with a compliment and end with a flirty and engaging question to keep the conversation going.

A threesome is exciting, sexually adventurous and incredibly hot. If you and your partner are considering adding a third to your sex life, set up a profile on CityBi.com and browse thousands of profiles to meet likeminded bisexual men and bisexual women in your area.