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The Benefits of Dating a Bisexual Man
If you have never considered dating a bisexual man you may be missing out! The one misconception that women have about dating a bisexual guy is that he will be cheating on you with every willing man he encounters. Nothing could be farther from the truth. You could also say that a straight man will cheat with every woman he encounters but we know that’s just not true. Bisexuality is simply the preference for men and women, not a constant need to sleep with both. However, relationships are defined differently for everyone but that brings us to the first point:
You Can Talk to Your Bisexual Boyfriend Openly About Sex, Expectations and Boundaries
A bisexual man is more likely to expect and engage in a conversation as the relationship unfolds and is able to discuss the nature of your sexual relationship openly and maturely. It’s a benefit over most heteronormative relationships where monogamy and gender roles are the expected status quo. Most hetero couples don’t have a conversation about the nature of their sexual relationship unless they happen to fall outside of the norm such as being polygamous.
Once you’re on the same page about fidelity you can start to discuss turn-ons and kinks, which can take years without openly discussing sexuality!
Your Bisexual Boyfriend May be Part of Another Alternative Lifestyle
Whether it’s goth, pagan, vegans, activists or cosplay we find that the world of bisexuality helps men to feel comfortable and confident in other lifestyles that many hetero men would find too far outside of their typical realm. This benefits any woman that likes to travel off the beaten path to gain new experiences and to meet exciting people. Of course many straight men are goth and many bisexual men may be most happy in the garage drinking beer with their buddies but generally speaking bisexual men have already broken one of society’s rules so why not another? In other words, dating bisexual men is exciting, revolutionary and experiential.
You Could Join In
Being bisexual does not make a man sex-crazed, inherently more driven to cheat or more likely to want group sex or a polygamous relationship but if that does turn your crank, you’re going to be more likely to fulfil your MMF threesome fantasy with a bisexual boyfriend rather than with a straight one. Especially if you crave an equally pleasurable group experience rather than the mainstream porn version of a female being used by multiple men (all good if it turns you on, just saying). Unfortunately, both men and women have been raised to repress their desires and to deny themselves sex that does not turn straight men on. Bisexual men have already broken that mould so if you’re one to cross those lines too, do it with your bisexual boyfriend!
Dating a bisexual guy can be the best thing that ever happened to your love and sex life with open and honest communication and the understanding that bisexuality is defined and embraced differently in every relationship.
Give it a Try - Date a Bi!
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