Whether you're gay, straight, bicurious or bisexual, you find the world of online dating confusing and exciting in equal measure. Here are 4 tips to help you have a more fun, safe experience online.
Tip #1: Spend time crafting a good profile -- and don't do it in a vacuum.
Pick a decent photo of yourself -- represent yourself honestly but in a good light. Otherwise, your dates might be "unpleasantly surprised" when they met you in person. Write a good profile description. Keep it positive and specific. Avoid delving too deep into your past failed relationships or your hatred of hipsters or whatever. Instead, focus on stuff about you that you think is wonderful and that you think a potential suitor will find fascinating and compelling.
For instance, maybe you're a great baker or an accomplished musician. Brag, but do it gently. Ask one or two friends to look over what you've created. Tailor your profile to attract the kind of person you're going after. For instance, if you're in the mood to date a guy or date a girl this summer, be specific and say so. If you don't care, make that clear. There is no "wrong way" to set up a profile, but you want to be clear, positive, and engaging.
